12-21-2021 Christmas is almost here

(Marilyn)

Everything is status quo.  She is always loopy in the morning and fairly lucid in the evenings.  And she re-lives Mother's death every day and cries for quite a while.

For Christmas, I'm going to order food from Bob Evans again and we'll eat at NHC. 

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