2-12-2022 Quick visit to Linda

 (Marilyn)

I went to see Linda for a little while today and she was depressed and conversation was weird.  She wanted me to help her sit down and when I told her she was already sitting down she said "Yes, I know, but can you help me sit down?"  Then she kept trying to get into bed by herself which could be really bad.

She has a bed sore that is causing her a lot of pain but since she wants to stay in bed, it's kind of hard to help it heal.

I didn't stay long.  

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